Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Cabin Trip #1 in 2011

This was our first cabin trip this season and it was a doozy!  Let me start by saying this, why my youngest son is not more seriously injured or dead by now, I don't know.  He should at least proceed with more caution, but yet he doesn't.  I was thinking about this last night after an "incident" which I will mention later on.  He is only four and he has had croup more times than I can count, has been in the ER four times, Instacare twice, hospitalized once, ICU once, been diagnosed with asthma, nearly choked to death once, had staples in his head once, nearly drowned twice, nearly got hypothermia once, got kicked in the head more times than I can count, and more bruises, cuts, and scrapes than my other two children combined.  Yet, he has no cavities.  He has gotten lost almost every time I go to Walmart, and several other places as well.  Yet, we didn't lose him at Disneyland.  Yet, he still proceeds with life at full force as his parents are wincing in the background, just knowing something else will eventually come up.  Okay, now I can proceed

Sunday was when we went up, after church, and changing our clothes.  We had a wonderful time with cousins and family.  JJ was even able to come and stay overnight with us as he found out he had Monday off.  A real special treat!  There was still plenty of snow, but not so much that we were freezing.  It was actually only 20 degrees cooler up there then down in the valley. We made a makeshift campfire and roasted marshmallows and starbursts.  We stayed up late that night playing games with my brother and sister-in-law.  It was a great night. 

Monday was good too.  We got up to go to the Brighton breakfast, sponsored by different people this year, but it was still decent.  Hashbrowns, eggs, bacon, sausage, muffins, and juice.  Most of it was cold, but still edible and filled us up.  We met the rest of the family there at the breakfast.  At 10:30 was the parade.  Every year the police tell us we can't do the parade because we don't have a permit, and every year we have a parade, oddly enough with police in it.  The kids loaded up on candy, loved watching the different cars and bikes all decked out.  A lot of people build their own cars and display them.  The Brighton Girls Camp handed out balloons.  But the piece that most of the children liked best was the fire engine... oh yeah, and all the candy that got thrown out.  They loaded up! It was like Halloween in July!  After the parade, we went back to the cabin, had lunch, some napped, we took a hike around the lake (which some parts of the path were still covered in snow).  Around 3:30, everyone went home, except us.  Here is where is got not as perfect.  It started perfect.  Everyone fell asleep except Melanie and me.  All boys were napping.  I woke them up when it was dinnertime, JJ had to leave right after dinner.  Sad part number one.  Melanie started crying, probably because everyone left so abruptly, it was discouraging to her.  After dinner, the boys watched Chip n' Dale, while Melanie and I played card games, and then I inventoried the pantry. We couldn't roast marshmallows again because it was raining and I wasn't sure the flue was open in the fireplace.  Melanie wanted me to rest, so she said that she would put the boys to bed.  That did not go over well.  The boys did not fall asleep until 11PM.  Then, at 2AM and every hour after that, Patrick kept asking if it was time to get up yet.  Finally, at 5AM, I gave up with sleep and said yes.  He was thrilled, I was not.

Tuesday was torture day for me.  Running on 3 hours of sleep, my patience was thin, my motherly reflexes were slow.  Everyone was on their own for breakfast, which meant dry cereal.  Eventually, after a bath, I felt better.  I dressed children, packed a lunch into our bag as well as trail mix, bread, water, and anything else you needed for three children on a hike.  It was chillier because of the previous nights' rain, around 56 degrees.  We hiked over the snow and mud to find our favorite spot to feed squirrels.  The bench was a little wet, but we still fed them and they enjoyed.  Gregory was friendly with everyone that passed and we stayed there for awhile.  Eventually we kept going to our favorite spot for lunch.  Luckily, there were some ducks there, so we fed them some bread as well.  The children also thought it would be fun to put some grapes on the trees to help feed the chipmunks.


Patrick and Gregory got a little bored, so we soon left and kept going.  Each child wanted their pictures taken on top of some of the rocks, so Melanie obliged.




Then, Melanie tried to take a picture of herself on a rock.  That didn't go so well.  She slipped and fell and bruised her bottom.  She did, however, take a picture of the offending rock. 


She cried for awhile, but then her bum was all forgotten when the next incident happened.  Now, if you have been following from the beginning, this is the part with Gregory's incident.  If anyone has been up to Brighton with us, you are familiar with Silver Lake, and possibly the boardwalk.  Well, we were walking on the boardwalk that crosses the lake, so you are actually walking over the lake.  Parts of this boardwalk have handrails to prevent falling in, other parts don't.  It had been a very wet winter, with a lot of thawing this year. Parts of the boardwalk are flooded.  Gregory was walking the ledge of the boardwalk holding onto the handrails.  I told him to stop doing this, he might fall in, which he say (in his childlike innocence) "I'm not trying to fall in."  Perfect.  That makes me feel much better.  However, I do convince him to stop it.  A little further down, the handrail stops.  I turn around to see how he is doing, just in time to see him on the ledge of the boardwalk, slip, hit his head, and fall into the freezing murky water.  I shriek, probably scaring off all the local wildlife, and rush over to him.  I yank him out of the water, and he is soaking wet from head to toe, sputtering out water.  I check him out, no cuts, no bleeding.  He is very cold and says his head hurts, there is a bruise forming on his cheek, but it won't go far, probably because of the cold.  Luckily, we are very close to the end of the hike and where the car is parked.  Patrick is way ahead, and did not witness any of this.  So, we rush on to get Gregory to the car, and eventually the cabin.  Patrick sees us, oblivious, except that Gregory is crying (which is normal to him), and asks if we can go inside the visitor center.  I point out Gregory's wetness and say no.  We rush to the car and get to the cabin.  Our cabin has a few heaters around that you flip on with a switch.  I stuck Gregory in front of one and strip him down.  He likes this.  He is dancing and flaunting his stuff in front of the heater while I stick his shoes in front of another heater, and stick his clothes in the laundry.  When I come back, he is wiggling his naked butt at the heater, smiling.  Maybe I should call him the rebound kid.  Eventually he is dressed in clean, warm clothes, and he and I take a much needed nap while Melanie and Patrick watch more Chip n' Dale. 

That evening, we had mini hotdogs, mac n' cheese, and soda.  Patrick had fallen asleep (surprise, surprise), but I wake him up to eat.  He eats, then goes back to sleep.  I play more games with melanie, clean up, and put an ice pack on Gregory's head, which he says hurts and I have no children's Tylenol.  Patrick wakes at 8PM, but then we all fall asleep (in my bed) around 10PM, listening to rain falling again. 

Wednesday.  Luckily, I get lots of sleep.  We all wake up around 8AM.  Waffles for breakfast.  Everyone is really good about packing and cleaning up that we have time for one more hike.  I am nervous about it, but am hoping for the best.  Nothing goes wrong.  It is very warm, which made a little bit more flooding in the lake, so more parts of the boardwalk are covered in a inch of water.  Melanie decided to take a picture of the spot Gregory fell in, which was now inhabited by ducks, which we fed.




On this hike, there were no incidents, but I was keeping a close eye on Gregory, and Patrick (nothing had happened to him yet, I was cautious).  We stopped at our spot again, and fed more squirrels.  Much more wildlife today.  Melanie got tons of pictures, I have to pick and choose which ones to use.


After some patience, one of them got very close to Melanie's shoe.




For some reason, they were also fascinated by the worms.



I think this picture is a bluejay.  What do you think?



Here are my two favorite squirrel pictures.



With no incidents, we headed back to the cabin for lunch, more cleaning, and more packing.  The only disappointing thing that day was, after I cleaned everything, packed the car, took out the garbages, and was about to lock up the cabin, Gregory pooped his pants.  I lost it with him, I admit.  I was furious.  We had to unpack the car to get new underwear and clean him up.  Eventually, we were ready.  We got home close to 2PM.  All in all, we survived, we are home, and we are excited to go back again, this time with friends!

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Patrick's end of 1st grade program.

I wasn't able to get as much as I wanted to record because a certain somebody (i won't mention any names) did not charge the camera after using it all day for military purposes.  But, here are some snippets of what went on last Friday.


I also gotta figure out why my videos off of my camera are uploading sideways.



At the very end, Patrick and a few other kids say, "From the 1st grade, we are glad that you came.  Hope you enjoyed the show.  If not, give the teacher's the blame."  I took a video, but you can't see him very well because he is blocked by other children. 


Saturday, June 4, 2011

Military Family Day

Well, it was a blast.  Despite sunscreen, I think we all got a little pink.  When we first arrived, they had Quiznos sub sandwiches, chips, cookies, drinks, and cake.  I ate almost a whole footlong myself!  After that, there was water balloon volleyball.  We have no idea which side won because it turned into a water balloon fight.  Even spectators weren't safe from the artillery! 






There was also frisbee that the boys really enjoyed doing. 



Melanie got her face painted.  The boys were too interested in other water sports instead.
Then there was the dunk tank!  First, certain soldiers were auctioned off for chances to dunk them at the dunk tank.  The higher ranking soldiers were first.  I put JJ up to bid.  I bought him for 20 dollars.  I think it was worth it!  Spencer, Morgan, JJ's mom, all three kids, and I got to dunk him!


There is his loving wife dunking my wonderful husband in the freezing cold water. 

Here is a video of him being dunked!  Which apparently won't upload!!!!


JJ dunked some of the other soldiers as well.  He has pretty dang good aim.

Later, there was a slip and slide for the kids.


 And then the piece de resistance, trout fishing!  They filled a swimming pool with tiger trout and water, put the kids in it, and them try to catch fish with their bare hands!  Melanie caught two.  Patrick caught three, but had to put one back, Gregory tried, but others caught him a couple of fish.  It was Melanie and Patrick's favorite part. 









Anyway, we are home.  We had fun.  Best part, JJ got paid for all of this!  And now back to earth!  Love you all!

Saturday, March 26, 2011

Becky's Big Ideas! The Chore Jar

My friend has been asking me to post some of my ideas that I use on my kids for chores and other things, so, I am doing just that.  I am not saying that my children are perfect, far from it.  I have just found certain things that work easier for them with a lot less fighting on both ends.

THE CHORE JAR!!!

This is the one I am going to use right now.  I have found a chore jar to be the best way to get my kids to do chores.  I used to do "The Chore Hour", where, on Saturdays, the kids did chores for one hour and then they got a dollar at the end of the hour if they were doing chores the whole time, but then they would fight over what chores to do.  So, now I do "The Chore Jar". 

  • I went and got a jar and some craft sticks at the dollar store. 
  • On each craft stick I wrote a chore.  Examples:  Garbages, Clean inside of car, Bathroom sink and mirror, toy room, bedroom, bookcases, kitchen floor, dishes, vacuum (divided into upstairs and downstairs), dusting(divided into upstairs and downstairs), wash dog, febreeze, lightswitches, doorknobs, fish tank, laundry, lysol spray, weeding, kitty litterbox, and dog poop.
  • Each child reaches into the jar with their eyes closed and needs to pick one chore.  They have to do that chore no matter what.
  • If they want to earn money, they can pick more chores and they would get fifty cents for each extra chore.
  • Sometimes they would need to earn something back that they got grounded from, (usually patrick), then I would have them reach into the jar to pick out a chore they need to do to earn that something back.
  • I also have a jar that I keep change in specifically for the chores. 
To me, this is a great way for the kids to get some chores done, earn money if they want to, and then they each get to learn new chores all the time. 

I hope this satisfies the specific someone I was talking abot until I can put a new post up!  Love ya!

Friday, February 11, 2011

No pictures, just updates

So, I don't have any pictures this time.  I wanted to take a picture of Patrick's teeth and post it, but he won't let me because he is a little embarrassed.  I will explain this soon.  First, the really good news.  JJ got a job that he loves!  I know, he got one in December with Teleperformance, but that was just a filler job.  He is training to be a busdriver.  He has been doing it for about a month now with no problems at all!  He passed his CDL and on hands training with flying colors!  The instructor said that he could be the instructor, he did so well.  I am very proud of him.  His confidence is building and he is a much happier person now that he is working and doing something he loves!  In another month, his training will be over and he will be getting paid more.  Here is the best news, because of this job and we just paid off our car,...  we can start looking for a house!  Yeah!  Not a very expensive one, but we can still get one now.  I am thrilled to pieces!  He is still going to school with University of Phoenix, and so far everything is going fine.

Okay, here is the deal with Patrick.  Patrick is seven years old and has not lost a single tooth.  He doesn't even have one that is loose.  So, when I took them to the dentist on Tuesday for their check-ups, I asked the dentist about it.  He did say that was very unusual.  As the dentist was looking in his mouth, he stopped and looked at me and asked, "When was the last time you looked in his mouth?"  Now, Patrick has been brushing his own teeth for almost three years now and he has never complained about a hurt tooth, so I guess it had been three years. I told the dentist that.  Well, guess what?!  Patrick has two extra teeth growing behind his bottom front teeth!  He didn't lose those teeeth because they didn't push them out of the way.  I told him he looks like sharkboy because of growing a second set of teeth.  That is what embarrasses him a little.  So, and this is why I like this dentist, we are going to bring Patrick in, the dentist is going to numb him up and then wiggle the front two teeth until they almost come out.  Then, he is going to send us on our way.  He is doing this for three reasons: 1. Patrick will be able to have the experience of pulling out his own teeth. 2. It will be cheaper for us to only pay for the anesthetic.  It would cost more to have the dentist pull out his teeth. 3. The teeth behind it haven't grown in all the way, if we can get the other teeth out, they will have a better chance of growing in properly.  Patrick is terrified of needles and has never had a cavity, so we shall see how he does.

That is the basic update so far.  If anything comes up that I can think of, I will try to remember to post (with pictures).